Saturday, April 25, 2015

Deal with EGO


How our inner Ego sometimes misjudges a PERSON!!!

Just because someone is flashy or dresses flamboyant doesn't mean they are rich.
Just because someone acts holy and talks holy doesn't mean they have true relationship with God.
Just because someone has a beautiful face doesn't mean they have a beautiful heart.
Just because someone has dreadlocks on their head doesn't mean they are irresponsible.
Just because someone is gentle/quiet looking doesn't mean they ain't wicked.
Just because someone is a single mum doesn't make her a bad woman.

Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance, which can be misleading. And in this impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Never judge a book by it's cover.

Thus we tend to lose our potential good friends, employees or customers. I have been around for a while and I have seen alot. (Agba okan ogbon, Oluwa nise ogbon) meaning Age has nothing todo with wisdom ONLY GOD gives wisdom

Remember In our Life, we seldom get people with whom we want to share & grow our thought process. But because of our inner EGO we miss them forever.

Deal with your ego and most importantly try as much to understand people's predicaments before writing them off, most of the time we find it arduous to forgive people for their mistakes or probably the loss they have caused us. It will lead to a situation whereby we will find it herculean to deal with other friends, colleagues and strangers, but since we cannot do without them, we will  in an unacceptable manner.

Too much ego will kill your talent also leave your ego otherwise everyone will leave you.

Investigate the concept behind an error and not necessarily the error itself.

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