Online Dating

In my office this morning i overhead the Secretary saying "online dating is stupid"
I giggled as i rocked my chair, then it was time to take a delve into the advantages and disadvantages of online dating.

In relic times, it was believed that the rightful places to meet with a responsible spouse are religious homes, office, parties and schools; bygone is such an era. Everyone is busy these days, coupled with the fact that many are computer literate in this era.
Online dating is an advantage for people who are uncomfortable about meeting people in public places, or who are new to an area.

These days, we use the internet for absolutely everything. Whether your shopping, reading the news, or connecting with loved ones, why not add dating to your online repertoire as well? What exactly is wrong with it?

Online dating is cool but we should also bear in mind that it has lots of disadvantages as freebies alongside.

When you meet and talk to people from an online dating site, you have less information to work off of. You don't know their friends and you can't ask around about them. The only way to overcome this disadvantage is to take your time when getting to know new people. Online dating saves plenty of time in the long run so don't be afraid to take your time in the beginning.

In real life you are usually able to only date one or two people at a time, but online you are able to “date” many more depending on your time on the computer, this is a great disadvantage because majority find it easy to break up with anyone they have picked from millons of potential match online but this could happen even if you never met online, imagine a person dating three to four persons in a school, office or religious home.

The reason that people choose online dating is the amount of choices you have. You can literally pick the perfect person from the millions out there in the dating pool. You won’t get those kinds of odds going to a club. You can pick the height, weight, hobbies, and anything else you want to find exactly what you are looking for. You may not find just one, there could be hundreds of potential life mates just at the click of a mouse.
Why lock yourself down with dating just one person? Online dating eliminates this problem. Browse through daters until you find someone special who really catches your eye. This is cool for those who are desperately in need of sexy postures and for those who wanted more.

Online dating has opened a huge door for all the people out there who have bad luck dating around in real life. People who are busy, are self-employed, live in small towns or just have bad luck in real life have benefited tremendously from the advantages offered by online dating.

Online dating enables you to meet with those that are in market, those that are in dire need of a spouse, but unfortunately there exist some persons online that have been married but on the outlook to taking advantages of singles that are desperate to getting a spouse.

Even so, the decision to try online dating shouldn't be made lightly. There are important disadvantages that you should consider before jumping in. The good news is that most of the disadvantages to online dating can be overcome by a little forethought.

Religion has always been against online dating because it has viewed it as a means to selling ourselves cheaply and a measure to displaying immortality. It was also viewed as a measure to making weakening marriages and that it constantly encourages break-up, since those involved have been left with the impression that there is more online. I could frantically remember how a pastor hated online dating and when i asked him he said it promotes infidels and liars.

Conclusion
Online dating is good but being desperate to getting a spouse online is risky, i personally feel those that met on social sites are less desperate compared with those that went further to signing up on a dating site where they are billed depending on the type of subscription they have chosen.
On the other hand religion was right but not absolutely right.
Everything depends on how you see it. Don't be desperate and demanding, you'll always get the best only if you use your senses.

A wise saying from a wise woman "You'll be alright after the loss" - Toke Sosan