I was pondering this as I was watching the March 19 episode of Nightline, where they did a segment on female orgasm .They even showed researchers observing a woman's brain activity as she brought herself to orgasm while in an MRI machine.
The physical ecstasy of orgasm is indeed profound. Nothing, Quite compares.
Ironically, in the same segment, they said that upwards of 75% of women do not have an orgasm during intercourse.
Now some questions kept me pondering the more.
Since 75% of women have not been able to reach orgasm during sexual intercoure. Does it mean they do not enjoy sex with their husbands?
And for those 25% that were able to attain orgasm; does it mean the sexual exercise that ensued between them and their husbands were more rigorous?
A scientist at the Nightline said wives should stop thinking about orgasm. Does it mean only the husbands should reach theirs? He added that orgasm in women isn't the prerequisite to child bearing. I expected some of those women on the program to pounce on him but none of them fired back.
Through sexual intimacy, God meant for a man and woman to get "stuck" together, so to speak. He just meant for that to happen after they have first made a verbal marital vow to stay together.
Sexual intimacy that is nurtured endears a husband and wife to one another. Husbands and Wives are nicer to each other when they pay close attention to their sexual intimacy. They will have greater appreciation for the sheer amount of effort it takes to do life together. Sex helps equip us emotionally, mentally and physically. Plus it's a heck of a lot of fun!!
Of course, this is why sex outside of marriage is so horrendously destructive and why sex within marriage is so amazingly vital. If you're finding it difficult to enjoy sex in your marriages, you both can seek medical admonitions, let your spouse know your expectations during these times and help each other to get the best out of these moments.
The clitoris serves no other purpose but sexual pleasure in a woman, in case she hasn't found orgasm you can fond the CLITORIS
To bring this to an abrupt end, it should be understood that sexual pleasures is something that is very important in marriage. For religious fanatics I will use this medium to say it isn't a sin to find better ways to pleasing your spouses. Try find a better way to doing it and the relationship between you both will be amazing and sincere. I know you will get bored if she/he isn't an good in bed but don't seek sexual pleasures outside your marriage. Orgasm in women is as well important.
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