Sexual desires in marriage

Many women in marriages complained bitterly about not reaching climax during sexual intercourse in their marriages. Some said their husbands don't have the accurate penile sizes while others crave over rigorous sexual activities.

Some therefore decided to seek sexual pleasures from men other than their husbands which is nothing but a sinful act; some went for sex toys while the rest settled for various forms of masturbation {solo and mutual}.

I’ve often asserted that I believe solo masturbation to be sinful

So, what do you do if you can’t climax during sex? While I believe solo masturbation is sinful, I have also mentioned that I believe that mutual masturbation is not.

So, if you can’t orgasm from sex, I see no issue with you achieving climax, by your own hands even, with your spouse, even better, let him participate. He can touch, kiss, squeeze, pinch, whatever you like, to help you “get there”. Just because he has had an orgasm and is “out of commission” for a bit, doesn’t make him useless. Another option would be to include sex toys into your intercourse time.

For as much as those whose husbands lack large penile sizes, it would be amazing if you can try various positions during intercourse. You might have fat laps which will not allow full penetration. Trying a position that will enable you both get rid of the barrier would come handy. You can get Kamasutra for a better explanation.

Depending on the position, you can sometimes fit a vibrator between you, and in the case of something like a We-Vibe , which is designed for couples, you don’t even have to hold it in place. This can help assist you in achieving orgasm during sex, if that’s something you desire.

Lastly, just because you have difficulty, or even find it impossible, to reach orgasm during sex at this point in your marriage, that doesn’t mean it will always be so.
Orgasm patterns change based on a great many factors: relationship, experience, hormones, season of life, fitness, water intake, how recent you last exercised, what you’ve eaten lately, and many more. Don’t give up hope.

Don't become an infidel because you don't have the accurate orientation.