Motivation Theory

Motivation theory includes the ideas and doings with which employees are encouraged to do what is really expected of them. Motivation is the inspiration to work; it brings about determination through which an employee can achieve a tangible objective by fulfilling intrinsic needs, capturing attention, or hooking into evolved motivational systems. Motivation goes hand in hand with being equipped. Equipping refers to the provision of skills and materials, with which a job can be achieved, while motivation is from the inside, being equipped is the push from the outside. These two creates an atmosphere of confidence, fairness and hard-working.
A good manager must be able to motivate his\her workers effectively; some of the following practice might be embraced in order to achieve positive results.

1.Creating an atmosphere of respect and regard
2.Creating an effective problem solving method
3.Being strict and not harsh
4.Being approachable
5.Effective communication skills

If the above were established, there will be peace and cooperation, every worker will find it pleasing when coming to their office every day, results would be achieved and customers will be well attended to without delay and complains. It would be very easy for every worker to reflect on their practice as well and share good practice with their colleagues.

In every situation there is usually a challenge that lies ahead, but if it has been considered in the constitution of the organization then there would have been a provision that will ensure that when these future challenges surface they will not be as adverse as they ought to have been simply because they have been considered right from the start, this is an attribute of the quality organization.

Quality organization helps in many ways because it solves problems that have not been imminent. It helps to ensure that the right management theory is used; it also help during the time of hiring hands into the organization because the right kinds of persons are contracted. There is this type of management theory which is effective, it is known as the scientific theory; it is that which ensures that a worker is made a better worker through the use of trainings, workshops and more. It has been effective in places where it has been permitted. This is part of having a quality organization in place. Quality organization helps in achieving a mission and vision statement without lags or confusions if it is was in place.

Online Dating

In my office this morning i overhead the Secretary saying "online dating is stupid"
I giggled as i rocked my chair, then it was time to take a delve into the advantages and disadvantages of online dating.

In relic times, it was believed that the rightful places to meet with a responsible spouse are religious homes, office, parties and schools; bygone is such an era. Everyone is busy these days, coupled with the fact that many are computer literate in this era.
Online dating is an advantage for people who are uncomfortable about meeting people in public places, or who are new to an area.

These days, we use the internet for absolutely everything. Whether your shopping, reading the news, or connecting with loved ones, why not add dating to your online repertoire as well? What exactly is wrong with it?

Online dating is cool but we should also bear in mind that it has lots of disadvantages as freebies alongside.

When you meet and talk to people from an online dating site, you have less information to work off of. You don't know their friends and you can't ask around about them. The only way to overcome this disadvantage is to take your time when getting to know new people. Online dating saves plenty of time in the long run so don't be afraid to take your time in the beginning.

In real life you are usually able to only date one or two people at a time, but online you are able to “date” many more depending on your time on the computer, this is a great disadvantage because majority find it easy to break up with anyone they have picked from millons of potential match online but this could happen even if you never met online, imagine a person dating three to four persons in a school, office or religious home.

The reason that people choose online dating is the amount of choices you have. You can literally pick the perfect person from the millions out there in the dating pool. You won’t get those kinds of odds going to a club. You can pick the height, weight, hobbies, and anything else you want to find exactly what you are looking for. You may not find just one, there could be hundreds of potential life mates just at the click of a mouse.
Why lock yourself down with dating just one person? Online dating eliminates this problem. Browse through daters until you find someone special who really catches your eye. This is cool for those who are desperately in need of sexy postures and for those who wanted more.

Online dating has opened a huge door for all the people out there who have bad luck dating around in real life. People who are busy, are self-employed, live in small towns or just have bad luck in real life have benefited tremendously from the advantages offered by online dating.

Online dating enables you to meet with those that are in market, those that are in dire need of a spouse, but unfortunately there exist some persons online that have been married but on the outlook to taking advantages of singles that are desperate to getting a spouse.

Even so, the decision to try online dating shouldn't be made lightly. There are important disadvantages that you should consider before jumping in. The good news is that most of the disadvantages to online dating can be overcome by a little forethought.

Religion has always been against online dating because it has viewed it as a means to selling ourselves cheaply and a measure to displaying immortality. It was also viewed as a measure to making weakening marriages and that it constantly encourages break-up, since those involved have been left with the impression that there is more online. I could frantically remember how a pastor hated online dating and when i asked him he said it promotes infidels and liars.

Conclusion
Online dating is good but being desperate to getting a spouse online is risky, i personally feel those that met on social sites are less desperate compared with those that went further to signing up on a dating site where they are billed depending on the type of subscription they have chosen.
On the other hand religion was right but not absolutely right.
Everything depends on how you see it. Don't be desperate and demanding, you'll always get the best only if you use your senses.

A wise saying from a wise woman "You'll be alright after the loss" - Toke Sosan

Deal with EGO

How our inner Ego sometimes misjudges a PERSON!!!

Just because someone is flashy or dresses flamboyant doesn't mean they are rich.
Just because someone acts holy and talks holy doesn't mean they have true relationship with God.
Just because someone has a beautiful face doesn't mean they have a beautiful heart.
Just because someone has dreadlocks on their head doesn't mean they are irresponsible.
Just because someone is gentle/quiet looking doesn't mean they ain't wicked.
Just because someone is a single mum doesn't make her a bad woman.

Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance, which can be misleading. And in this impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Never judge a book by it's cover.

Thus we tend to lose our potential good friends, employees or customers. I have been around for a while and I have seen alot. (Agba okan ogbon, Oluwa nise ogbon) meaning Age has nothing todo with wisdom ONLY GOD gives wisdom

Remember In our Life, we seldom get people with whom we want to share & grow our thought process. But because of our inner EGO we miss them forever.

Deal with your ego and most importantly try as much to understand people's predicaments before writing them off, most of the time we find it arduous to forgive people for their mistakes or probably the loss they have caused us. It will lead to a situation whereby we will find it herculean to deal with other friends, colleagues and strangers, but since we cannot do without them, we will  in an unacceptable manner.

Too much ego will kill your talent also leave your ego otherwise everyone will leave you.

Investigate the concept behind an error and not necessarily the error itself.

Things you should know before you cheat (Rod Arters)

It seems that every 3 months or so we learn of another celebrity caught cheating on his or her spouse. To say adultery is an epidemic in our current culture is an understatement. And it doesn’t seem to be a respecter of position. Regardless of what we do for a living, (Politicians, Pastors, teachers, athletes, actors, musicians, etc) cheaters are in our midst. It seems to be so prevalent today that the question isn’t who is cheating but rather – who isn’t?

Too many treat their most important relationships casually and their commitments to them as optional. Our microwave society mentality (quick and easy) has infiltrated our most sacred institution, marriage. Many cheaters try to justify their reasons for infidelity. To a cheater, their reasons make sense. Perfect sense. To those who have never strayed they just don’t understand why.

Our thirst for affairs has become so accepted and normal in our culture that most shows on television mention an infidelity reference somewhere throughout the episode. Not to be outdone, we even have a reality show (called Cheaters) that is designed to reveal an indiscretion and exploit the humiliation on national television. Honestly, I’m not sure which is worse – the immoral action of the cheater or the people who produce the show. The fact that the series is in its 12th season is an indictment against us. I’m not sure which is more devastating – discovering your lover’s unfaithfulness or discovering the crushing news at the same time as the train-wreck watching public.
We live in a very sad day and age. I have seen first-hand the destruction of adultery. Cheating devastates relationships and shatters dreams. If you have entertained the idea of cheating on your spouse or significant other, let this serve as your official warning.

Your handsome boss, cute office secretary or sultry neighbor down the street comes with a price tag that you cannot afford. Before you cheat here are 14 things you really need to know

1. You will become a liar. It’s bad enough to bear the title of “Cheater,” but if you cheat, you will also wear the hat of “Liar.” Cheating cannot occur without deceit on some level and normally the white lies in the beginning become full-fledged lies at the end. “ I’m working late at the office tonight ” may be a half-truth but you’ll need to redefine the word “working” to silence your compromised conscience. Cheating and lying go hand in hand.

2. You will get caught. It may not be today. It may not be tomorrow. But eventually, your affair will come to light. Your world will come crashing down on you. If you are fortunate, the story of your indiscretion may avoid the evening news or the front page of your local paper, but your circle of friends will know your deeds. And everyone likes to share juicy news. Your poor decision will become as public as a billboard. It’s not a matter of if but when. As Pastor Rick Warren tweeted recently, “ If the Director of the CIA can’t hide and cover up an affair, no one can .” As the Chinese proverb goes, “ If you don’t want anyone to know it, don’t do it.”

3. You will disappoint everyone. Everyone. Your spouse. Your friends. Your co-workers. Your God. Your parents. Your nephew. Your children. Yourself. The disappointment you cause will be like the stench of skunks and it will take a long time to remove the smell.

4. You will be a bad example. Everyone is either a good example or a bad example in all things that we do. Cheating is a not only a very bad example in relationships but brings with it a cloud of doubt that hovers over you in other areas of your life. If you cheated in one area, would you cheat in another?
Cheating communicates to everyone that you took the easy road. It tells others that you were willing to cut corners in your most primary relationship. It reveals that you were not willing to do the hard work and get the help you needed. No one ever admires a cheater. No one looks up to an adulterer. Even if you did a lifetime of good, this one bad deed can erase it all.

5. You will lose your moral authority. It’s hard to tell your children (or others) to do the right thing when they know you didn’t. Saying “ Do as I say, not as I do ” is the fastest way to lose the respect of others. Not only will you lose their respect, you’ll lose yours. Every moral judgment you make in the future will be weighed against your adulterous action of the past. It doesn’t mean you can’t speak the truth in the future, it just means that few will listen to you.

6. You will create trust issues for your spouse. Forever. You will single-handedly damage the precious self-esteem of the one you promised to love. Every relationship they have after you will be one that they struggle to trust. If that were not enough, you will rock the world of children and cause them to question the stability of every meaningful relationship they have. For children, their parents relationship is their anchor and cheating cuts the line.

7. You will lose your standard of living. Depending on what you do for a living, you may lose your job. Many lose their home. Most end up with enormous court fees since cheating is usually the precursor to divorce.
Betrayed spouses have a way of making you pay and that payment is always expensive. Every check you write is a constant reminder of your foolishness.

8. You will spend years trying to rebuild your life. Literally years. Even if you somehow weathered the storm financially, you will find it takes years for you to recover emotionally. It takes years for you to restore certain friendships, if you even do. It takes years for you to rebuild your character. It takes years to rebuild trust. It takes years to truly forgive yourself.

9. You will lose relationships. You will lose a LOT of relationships. Lifelong friends will walk away. Close friends that you have helped countless times will not be around to help you. Even some family members who are supposed to love you no matter what will vanish. A cheater can end up living a very lonely life. It’s hard for many people who used to call you friend to get past that skunk smell of disappointment.

10. You will increase your chances of getting an STD. Sexually transmitted diseases run rampant among promiscuous people. But your paramour is “clean,” right? After all, they told you so. And if there is one thing we all know – we can trust a cheater and their word. As the saying goes, “There is honor among thieves.” One helpful thought may be to assume that everyone but your spouse has an STD. That should curb your appetite for destruction.

11. The grass is not greener on the other side. The “grass is greener” idea is a common misconception. Because we have never been on that grass, we assume it must be better than where we currently stand. It’s not. In fact, though it may look greener from a distance – once you get there and make yourself comfortable, something interesting happens – the grass changes color. This usually happens soon after you get caught. You will then see that patch of land differently. You will also have a strange desire for the green grass you left… except now it is burned and won’t let you back. The best way to enjoy green grass is to water your own yard.

12. Would you want this done to you? Thieves like to steal wallets but hate when it’s done to them.
If we all lived by the Golden Rule (“Treat others the way you want to be treated .”) most of life’s problems would be solved overnight. Think about this action as if it were being done to you. The problem is that it requires thought and thinking is often the last thing a cheater has on his/her mind.

13. You will eventually regret this decision. In the heat of the moment, cheating appears to make sense. It feels good and sometimes even feels right. Feelings are deceitful. Soon afterward, your eyes will be opened and you will regret that you ever partook of the forbidden fruit.
Don’t we all have enough regrets in our lives? Why add another one – particularly one that can only destroy everything you have worked so hard to build? Your home may not be perfect but it sure beats living in a tent.

14. The pain outweighs the gain. No one ever says from their deathbed, I wish I would have had an affair. No one ever leaves their lawyer’s office with a smile on their face – grateful for the experience. No one loses dear friends and is glad they have one less Christmas card to receive this year. The loss is immeasurable. The pain can be unbearable. Entire kingdoms can be lost for a few minutes of pleasure. It is just not worth it.

As I read the Bible with a humble set of eyes these days, I see that the Book is filled with great men and women who have fallen in some pretty huge ways. God picks them up and uses them in spite of their past. I’ve come to learn that we all fall, just in different ways.

“ The Official blog of Rod Arters ."

Sin is anything bad

Sin is every thing that is wrong. Sin is no laughing matter restricted to religion
alone. Sin is an Offence (against the divine law), transgression, iniquity, unrighteousness, wickedness, moral depravity, wrong, delinquency.
If moral depravity and wickedness have been found to be sinful acts then we should take to cognizance that sins are not against the divine law or being only. It must be estimated as any entity that's not accepted physically and spiritually; man and God alongside self and soul. 👍

The god of the moon in Sumerian mythology is also called sin. What a nomenclature?
I hope they won't use that as an opportunity to adopt heinous offences. 😀

ELECTRONIC HEALTH RECORD (EHR) strengthened privacy, monitoring and precision.

Privacy is to be taken seriously, there are some vital information about patients that must not be permitted to reach the outside no matter the occurrence, everyone wants to feel secure and respected. Should some certain information be disclosed be it intentionally or unintentionally they will find it difficult to move around without covering up their faces, to be very realistic all records must be stored in a retrieval system whereby the can be safeguarded out of the reach of every persons.

As a matter of fact we know that confidential heath care is a human right enshrined in law, therefore it must be taken seriously, for if the health records of an individual is lost completely then such will not find healthcare secure and meaningful, people like to see their files and information kept for years even after a tenure when they are not going to need them anymore, it is now a thing of advantage that there has been various electronically methods of keeping information. As a body that is willing to comply with Health Care Information Systems we are aware that there are so much measures through which health care records can be kept without losing the information that has been provided by every patient. A patient needed his/her health information for future references and treatments therefore it would become an issue if it cannot be provided as at the time it was requested for. In some instances a law suit may be filed, since it would look like a breach of agreement.

Should a patient request for their health file or record and it cannot be provided due to the natural disaster that has destroyed the copies that have been kept, then the patient would be explained to by management and it would be assured to them that there is a kind of format used by the organization that could not be deciphered by anyone outside the health care organization. Also as a body that is not existing in relic times it must be right to have a soft copy of these files and also to accrue them from other health care sources especially since the introduction of Electronic Health Records, which has been prescribed to all health care sectors, it is a strong method of possessing patients information in ways with which they can be gathered even while the hospital in question has lost all the data it has derived from treatments and diagnosis. We know the essence of putting In place a database that works; therefore that is never going to be an issue should natural disasters occur, this will put hospitals ahead of those that have so much believed in the old modes of keeping records, the hard copies are usually voluminous and hard to maintain than soft copies. Possessing an online cloud will even make it so easy to get back all necessary files once they are requested for; if this is not in place then it will not be easy to derive, therefore it would be told to patients that the natural disaster has damaged all the files we ever had therefore we will try as much as possible to re-run diagnosis and ensure that we build an adequate and detailed health care record of their over a period of time, also they might be complemented with some freebies, so as to show that such was not done intentionally, and for the privacy they might nag over it would be explained to them how all of these files have been stored and that an ordinary person might not be able to have them in their useful state, the papyrus used will be one such that whenever water has a contact with it all the information in them would be wiped off, that should give them enough reason to smile and count on healthcare as being caring, competent and organized.

Teenagers must be seriously remembered in this occurrence because they are the sole group that does not like their health information to leak out even to the hands of their parents let alone to a stranger. A teenager who sits in a consulting room with his or her doctor can rely on their doctor to keep confidential any info they disclose except an exemption applies. So it would become a serious issue if their health information crept out of where they have been kept in order. As an organized body all of these must been included in the mission statement so that chaos will not rock the minds of patients also so that loyal customers will not flee over time just because of a natural disaster that occured all of a sudden then leave the vision statement hanging in jeopardy.

As for staff, the human resource department should not just bring in anyone that is not willing to work with the use of today’s technologies. Therefore those ones that are not capable of using electronic modes of saving their work will have to be trained on that also for others that are to be written on hard copies they will be brief and not detailed, such that should other persons pick it up they will have less meaning or become totally meaningless to them. Vital information should not be written or passed all over the hospital just like that, as a rule under privacy act it must be noted that the patient does not expect everyone to know the condition of his/her health except if such a patient has been consented, but even in this occasion it would be used for the treatment of some other persons or to discover new ways with which the ailment or disease the patient is suffering from can be discovered. So using electronic methods to store information have been discovered to be the easiest form of keeping them because they can be easily called upon when need be. As a modern health professional that is existing in this era he/she must possess knowledge of using electronic methods to saving health records.

Another is that in most circumstances the health professional must have been familiar with the health problems of the patients he/she treats on daily, monthly or quarterly basis, also in their offices there will be a data/information recording devices that will have the record of any patient they diagnose or treat intact, this would even mean less work for these health professional since they will not need to be calling for patients files every now and then, and as a measure to ensure that privacy is not breached the information recording device will not be the type on which data could be culled off such as using a pen/flash drive of other electronic memory cards. It would make it unique and give every patient the maximum confident that their information has been kept intact. Like in the case of natural that was discussed earlier the files in the records retaining device will not be lost. Therefore health professionals will be respected and free with their patients.

Permissions for uses and disclosures of facts about individual and their ailment and treatment are not to be shared except they are  permitted or required as stated by health care law, a covered entity may not use or disclose protected health information without a permission that is equitable under the law, meanwhile when a covered entity obtains or receives a legitimate permission for its use or disclosure of protected health information or report, such use or disclosure of preserved health information must be constant with such permission. Permission is not required in some instances such as in the cases listed below.

1.Uses by the creator of the analysis for treatment
2.Uses for training programs in which trainees learn under the supervision to practice and improve their skills in group or individual counseling
3.Use or disclosure by the covered entity to defend itself in a legal action or other proceedings brought by the individual.

But for every other use permission from patient is expected to be granted before usage, some might agree to without any terms with the physician while other might decide to give conditions with which such facts can be used. If disclosures are done without following the necessary procedures then the owner of the record has the right to take it up in the law court for the charge of breaching over privacy. Every health professional is expected to know the basis of disclosing health information and they are to follow the legal procedures so as to keep them from facing the wrath or the law.

They will be trained to follow the supposed trails as directed by Electronic Health Records (EHR), instead of Electronic Medical record that is prepared and dwells within the place where they are gathered alone. EHR is the best method since it involves interaction with other health care organizations.

To achieve one’s management plans it should be known that one cannot succeed without having the right mission with which the vision can be achieved. At first the environment must have been studied to know if there will be the achievement of the organization’s plan. How can the management plan be achieved when the right hands have not been hired, the right type of hands must be employed. This could only emanate from such a setting only if the company is organized right from the start. There is nothing difficult in achieving a wonderful management if the right principles were adopted.

Health care has not been a static entity, so much changes has been made in health care, most of which are benefitting to the hospitals, professional health care workers and patients alongside. It has also marked merit for the health care industry. In the last 10 years there has been the introduction of modern health care facilities which helps to facilitate the delivery of health care services.

Technological advancement has also crept into health care which has made it easier for health professionals to carry out their function in a better way with the maximum amount of precision. There is the use of syringes that are being controlled electronically by computers; much type of machines have been discovered and introduced by scientist which have made monitoring of patients easier and faster. This is not the area in which health care has developed, if health care facilities are considered, it would be identified that these facilities are better built, attractive and serving purposes. There are many electronically operated doors, beds, wheel chairs and more.
Cameras are now used in every ward and waiting rooms so as to monitor and to record the way health care is being dispensed, this alone has helped to ensure that every health professional is not doing the wrong thing or treating patients in a manner that is not accepted by the patients or that is out of health care ethics.

All of these are enough to ensure that a patient health records are intact and in order, therefore no matter the incidence healthcare is yet ahead. Modern health care organization must be able to harness all that they have got in place.

Teenager Healthcare (privacy)

It was believed and backed up by law that confidential heath care is the right of every human and failure to respect this term would mean breaking the law.
An assistance has no right to release any record without informing the administrator, this could mean that the data has lost its security and that all records kept in the supposed system are not well guarded thereby content of many or all the records kept might have been accessed by the assistant or someone else without consenting the owners of such information.
Should the assistant release the record without consenting the administrator then the admin could sue him or her for data violation in the court of law.
A teenager is considered to be a soft minded individual that could easily be made to change their mind even in the wrong direction; the teenager should not be asked to request the record except they decided on their own but should such occur a discussion with the teenager about informing or involving his or her parents must be met but in a careful manner so as not to breach privacy which could lead to teenagers refusing treatments in future time.
Any part of the record is to be kept confidential though this section may exclude some amount of fact that can be shared with parents but these parts are the parts that will not breach the privacy rule, healthcare professional might await court order before releasing health records of teenagers.
The parents have right over their children to an extent because adolescents too wanted a private life they are not willing to share all of their day to day activities with their parents let alone health matters, they also rely on their doctors to keep all infomation that have been disclose or gathered through diagnosis confidential except; should an exemption applies just as adult too would.